I’ve been following the news about P Diddy and Cassie, and it’s hard to describe the weight it carries. For a lot of women, her story is far from shocking. For others like me it feels far too familiar. People often ask why someone didn’t just leave. Let me tell you that when you’re caught […]
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Emerging from a toxic relationship can leave behind emotional wounds that deeply affect how you connect with others. These scars often manifest in attachment styles, a concept rooted in attachment theory introduced by psychologist John Bowlby. This theory suggests that our early experiences with caregivers shape how we bond and build relationships in adulthood. When
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I’ve spent the past decade working with couples, and there’s one pattern that consistently emerges: we often misread our partner’s attempts to connect. Last week, a client shared something profound: “I always thought my husband was criticizing my cooking. Today I realized he was trying to spend more time with me in the kitchen.” This
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Why New Year’s Resolutions Are Actually Hurting Your Relationship (And What Really Works Instead) Let’s be honest — we’ve all been there. It’s December 31st, and we’re making those big, bold promises about how we’re going to transform our relationships in the new year. “This year will be different,” we tell ourselves. But here’s the
Communication is at the heart of any relationship. It acts as the medium through which individuals express their thoughts, needs, and emotions. However, communication is not a monolithic concept — it comes in many forms, each shaped by our unique attachment styles. These attachment styles, which are formed in early life, can significantly affect how
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Attachment styles play a fundamental role in shaping how we connect with others, especially in romantic relationships. They influence our emotional patterns, our communication habits, and, more importantly, our responses to stress and conflict. While attachment theory is widely discussed in the context of building healthier relationships, it’s equally important to understand how certain attachment
Growing up with strict parents can leave some pretty heavy emotional baggage. When parents are overly controlling or have sky-high expectations, it’s not just about having a tough childhood — it’s about the kind of lasting impact it can have on how you see yourself and your relationships with others. One major thing that often
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Ahh the illustrious challenge to reach climax, let’s be honest it can be a challenge for most women at some point.Achieving orgasm is a significant aspect of sexual health and psychological well-being for many women. However, the ability to climax can be influenced by a myriad of factors that intertwine physical, psychological, and relational aspects.
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